Being ‘Woke’ to LGBTQIA+ is a Muddle

Using language from New York City’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center website, I summarize the following information:

LGBTQIA+ is an abbreviation for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer or questioning, intersex, asexual, and more. These terms are used to describe a person’s sexual orientation or gender identity.

That abbreviation breaks down as follows:

LESBIAN

A woman whose enduring physical, romantic, and/or emotional attraction is to other women. Some lesbians may prefer to identify as gay or as gay women.

GAY

Describes people whose enduring physical, romantic, and/or emotional attractions are to people of the same sex. Sometimes lesbian is the preferred term for women.

BISEXUAL

A person who can form enduring physical, romantic, and/or emotional attractions to those of the same gender or more than one gender. People may experience this attraction in differing ways and degrees over their lifetime. Bisexual people need not have had specific sexual experiences to be bisexual; they need not have had any sexual experience at all to identify as bisexual.

TRANSGENDER

An umbrella term for people whose gender identity and/or gender expression differs from what is typically associated with the sex they were assigned at birth. People under the transgender umbrella may describe themselves using one or more of a wide variety of terms— including transgender or nonbinary. Some transgender people are prescribed hormones by their doctors to bring their bodies into alignment with their gender identity. Some undergo surgery as well. But not all transgender people can or will take those steps, and a transgender identity is not dependent upon physical appearance or medical procedures.

QUEER

An adjective used by some people whose sexual orientation is not exclusively heterosexual or straight. This umbrella term includes people who have nonbinary, gender-fluid, or gender nonconforming identities. Once considered a pejorative term, queer has been reclaimed by some LGBTQIA+ people to describe themselves; however, it is not a universally accepted term even within the LGBTQIA+ community.

QUESTIONING

Sometimes, when the Q is seen at the end of LGBT, it can also mean questioning. This term describes someone who is questioning their sexual orientation or gender identity.

INTERSEX

An adjective used to describe a person with one or more innate sex characteristics, including genitals, internal reproductive organs, and chromosomes, that fall outside of traditional conceptions of male or female bodies. Do not confuse having an intersex trait with being transgender. Intersex people are assigned a sex at birth — either male or female — and that decision by medical providers and parents may not match the gender identity of the child. Not all intersex folks identify as being part of the LGBTQIA+ community.

ASEXUAL

The adjective describes a person who does not experience sexual attraction. Sometimes shortened to “ace,” it is an umbrella term that can also include people who are demisexual, meaning they do experience some sexual attraction; graysexual, meaning those who may not fit the strictest definition of the word asexual; and aromantic, meaning they experience little to no romantic attraction and/or has little to no desire to form romantic relationships.

+PLUS

The ‘plus’ is used to signify all of the gender identities and sexual orientations that words cannot yet fully describe.

I’m guessing the +Plus is where the term ‘non-Binary’ fits.

A non-Binary gender identity is not specifically mentioned in the eight-letter acronym: We hear the term a lot but few of us know what it is. Frankly, nobody does. Non-binary identities fall under the transgender umbrella since non-binary people typically identify with a gender that is different from their assigned sex, but some non-binary people do not consider themselves transgender.

From Wikipedia: Non-binary people may identify as an intermediate or separate third gender identify with more than one gender, no gender or have a fluctuating gender identity (genderfluid). Being non-binary is also not the same as being intersex; most intersex people identify as either male or female. A third gender – or unlimited genders? Confused? So am I.

With all the news, references and support for LGBTQIA+ by reporters, pundits, politicos and those occupying “the high moral ground,” we must be dealing with a very large number of people in this country whose sexual orientation is other than straight – male or female. Right?

According to The Williams Institute (the UCLA Law School of Law gender research), an estimated 3.5% of the US adult population identifies as LGB, 0.3% of U.S. adults identify as transgender.

While the estimates of the LGBTQIA+ numbers are just that – estimated, it’s obvious the numbers and percentages are small. In the case of transgenders, it’s not even one-half of a percent.

So, why so much news coverage and political narratives on this tiny minority, especially the transgenders? If they make up less than ½ of 1%, why do we have public K-12 schools wanting to teach our kindergarten children they may be transgender and/or for that matter, about sexual ‘identity’ and sexual preferences at all? The accusations that fly around are that these people are discriminated against, and non-straight oppression has a long history in the US.

I don’t know about you, but I could care less about another person’s sexual preferences or whether they identify with any people identified in the long acronym – or not. I have a hard time just remembering what it the acronym stands for. I’m supposed to believe all of them have been and are oppressed and vilified and that we need ‘equity’ to involve them in general societal participation. It’s not important, any more than skin color or ethnicity. I don’t wear masculinity on my sleeve. Why is it important for gays and transgenders and bisexuals to be recognized and fit into one or more other categories?

I can understand why women and girls are sensitive and uncomfortable when biological males are in the bathrooms, showers, and locker rooms – and competing with them in sports. Does anyone care about the sensitivities of straight females?

This whole LGBTQIA+ thing is not productive – and a meaningless distraction.

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Have a great and prosperous week.

Hug somebody.

References:

https://gaycenter.org/about/lgbtq/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_demographics_of_the_United_States

https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/publications/how-many-people-lgbt/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non-binary_gender

SPIDER Bites

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